Avatar should refresh page, profile fields and user page

Great plugin I’ll be sure to tell my friends all about it!
1. When avatar added it should show right away or the page should refresh but right now I need to manually refresh page to see the new avatar…..there’s no telling if the avatar was added or not after upload.

2. I added new profile fields to user profile, how do I get it to show on About: https://snag.gy/lMO17u.jpg

3. How do I make /user go to about instead of Activity feed? I don’t even think I need an Activity Feed, it looks cumbersome http://newyorkfollow.com/user/nyfteam/

Thanks for the help in advance